Kids and SxSs: Irresponsible Parenting or Freedom?
This one’s gonna probably ruffle some feathers, but I want to write about it….so buckle up.
I’ve seen a lot of changes over the years, but nothing gets under my skin like watching a kid—maybe 9 or 10 years old—behind the wheel of a 1,000cc machine, no helmet, no supervision, just ripping donuts around camp like it’s an amusement park. 99% of my interactions (no matter how friendly and respectful I am) ends up creating tension. Never something anyone wants to deal with, including me.We all want our kids and grandkids to enjoy the outdoors. That’s not the issue. In fact, I love seeing families out riding together. It’s the best kind of bonding you can ask for. But where do we draw the line between giving them freedom and flat-out being reckless?“They Gotta Learn Somehow!”I’ve heard it. I’ve said it myself. We want to pass on the skills and the spirit. But handing a powerful machine over to a kid with no experience, no safety gear, and no adult around? That’s not teaching. That’s gambling—and it’s a bet you can lose fast.Some of these youth-model machines still go 40–50 mph. That’s not a toy, that’s a missile in the wrong hands.
Camp Chaos
Then there’s the wild west that is camp life. I’ve watched kids tearing through tight camp setups, nearly clipping other rigs, kicking up dust clouds while people are trying to eat. Meanwhile, the parents? Nowhere to be seen? It’s not just annoying. It’s dangerous. I’m not writing this to tell parents how to be parents, I’m respectfully saying….I raised mine already, I don’t want to do parenting with yours, that’s your responsibility and I respect your authority and love for your children but your putting the rest of us in a difficult position because you’re not parenting. This isn’t a rant….this is the truth.
Helmet? What Helmet?
You wouldn’t let your kid ride a bike down the street without a helmet, but you’ll let them operate a 1200-pound machine on uneven terrain with no protection? Come on. You don’t get a do-over when a head hits a rock.Am I Overreacting?Maybe. Some say today’s kids are too coddled. Others say letting them ride freely builds confidence, teaches responsibility, and gives them a taste of real-world independence. I get that. I grew up with scars and stories too. But here’s the deal: when you’re on public land, your choices affect everyone else. That includes your fellow riders, search and rescue teams, and the image of the whole SxS community.
My Take
Teach your kids. Ride with them. Gear them up like they matter—because they do. Let them grow into responsible, respectful trail riders, not cautionary tales. Freedom’s earned through experience, not handed out like candy.You can be the cool parent and the responsible one. In fact, the best ones are both. None of us (including me) want to tell you how to be a parent….we want to watch your kids have a good time, learn about the environment we ride in and how to interact with everyone out there safely. I also wanted to point out that this experience dosent happen very often … 99% of all parents understand these issues and respectfully take responsibility. So, it’s not everyone with kids… I’m sorry if I’ve offended anyone, not my intention. I just wanted to write about our experience and why it’s impossible for me to write this and not offend someone….